Java and General Programming Sites and News Sources

General:
stackoverflow
Refcardz

Java:
Java Community Content on InfoQ
the serverside
refcardz
informit
developerworks
Automation For the People
Java Lobby
Java Developers Journal
(esp. automation for the people)
martin fowler
sdtime
http://java.sys-con.com/, http://java.dzone.com/
Developer.com/java
Java Posse

Java Reference Guide (http://www.informit.com/guides/guide.aspx?g=java)
java almanac, The Register/Software

Automation: